I'm back, on my own.

[MrBond]

"My H has told me it bothers him?!"

Because they were in a position of power before. Now you have the power again. Your life is in your hands and your H has no control over it.

When he blamed you for everything and called you name, etc. he was "the man". He thought he was untouchable and was in control of everything. But once you started showing that you are woman of worth and are attracting other men, he now is getting jealous.

Just keep living your life. I'm sure you've continued to look great and feel great. There will be a point where your H will try to get back together with you and it sound like you were the one who dumped him. That's when you tell him that you deserve more in a man than one who couldn't take responsibility for his own actions.

Good job on creating your new life.