I would print out the photos of him and the OW. Then I would listen to his 'oh woe is me' story. Then tell him. "Well why don't you get her to help you pay for it?" Then give him the photos and walk away.
Strong and determined. You have to show him that you have dignity and deserve respect.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.