As we move along this path speculating how our spouses are feeling or what is motivating them puts us at risk of getting wrapped up in the drama again. Use care to protect yourself.
I agree with Rick about the insurance. I remember from early posts how you felt about Cobra. Perhaps there are alternatives depending upon your circumstance. We do not need to know these. When my children were dropping off my insurance we got them limited coverage with other insurers. It was not the best, but we were able to tailor a plan against something catastrophic.
Can you ask your peers how they provide themselves health insurance alternative to cobra? Just a thought.
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill