I have not read your post in awhile, but I did read your last post. I completely understand how you feel about buying a new house. My H moved in with me back in February after being separated for 8 months and he said my place was too small for him and wanted us to buy a house. Talk about stress. I finally told him that I was not interested in buying house right now because I want to make sure things work out between us. I told him that He left me in 2010 and left me again 2011 and if he decided to leave me again, then I would not have to move. He was upset but said that he understood.