So, last night I received news that my brother is now going through what I've been going through with my XW. They've been together about 19 years and now she has decided that she no longer loves him and has moved out.
She has said almost the same things to my brother that my XW has said to me during this mess. It is uncanny. Some of the things that she has said to him has been WORD FOR WORD the same things I have heard. I guess it is true that they really do read from the same play book.
I really am starting to lose hope/faith that ANY long term relationship can make it.
Tad
Currently: M 56 XW 57 Sons 38,33,31,29
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13
