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Originally Posted By: 25yearsmlc
geez is this a guy thing?

My h told me our friend had a baby the other night and "is doing well". I said was it a boy or girl? Did she get an epidural (h is an MD so he could know this)

how long was the labor? Wasn't the baby premature?

H looked at me and said "She had the baby and they both lived..."which gives me NOTHING to go on...

Sheesh...men can be from Mars wink


Sounds about right, 25! cool


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Following up on yesterdays email to my wife, she writes back:

Hi Gunny,
How are you? Did you get to the viewing last night? Are you going to the funeral today?

2 minutes later:

Hi,
Not sure how that got sent before i was done:)
The Insurance bill for the van was sent to me. It is due 5/19. I will send it out to you tomorrow. I just wanted you to know it was on the way.

When do you want to talk about the paperwork?
Take care
Wife

Any thoughts/comments from those who have gone through this up and down stuff before?
Thanks all, greatly appreciated


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Hello everyone, some quick updates.
Received D paperwork from s, she filled in her portion, and sent copy to me for me to fill in. From here, it goes to D company, and then to court, where it gets filed, I make an appearance, and presto, we are Divorced. This is what she wants, she is adamant, so, it will be done.

At this point, I believe I want it done also, if only to move things along and to get on to the next chapter in our lives. I am pretty sure this is needed by her to clear the air.

Strange thing. Last night, I got home around 7, and there was a message from my old neighbor. I called her back, and she told me that the condo that I


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continued, hit the wrong button, sorry,
had just moved out of on March 1st had burned to the ground, along with seven other units. This took place yesterday morning at 530. I was shocked. There were no fatalities, but everyone involved lost all they had. They are now being housed by the Red Cross.

What a strange thing. Everyone is telling me that I moved for a reason. In fact, I left early before the lease was up, I was originally slated to stay there until June 1st. If I hadnt gotten the bug to move, that would have been me that lost everything! Then I really would have thought I was cursed.

So, this morning, at 0800 in my office, my s calls to see if I had heard, and to talk about it. Because of facebook, she knew more info about the incident than I did, I am rarely on it, she keeps in contact with some of our old friends. She asked how I was, and we both sort of said "there but for the grace of God go I" Really makes you think. I am relieved no one was hurt, and all animals got out allright.

Hope everyone out there is doing well, I read the post often, and wish all the best!


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Good to hear from you Gunny. Sorry it has come to this. I'm in court in two weeks. Ho have you been friend? Hope you are sleeping and less depressed.


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Wow Gunny! Strange goings on to be sure! Maybe it is a sign...up from the ashes, grow the roses of success.

Peace!


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Hi gunny, glad you are OK but that sort of thing can mess with you mind a bit.

Glad you checked in.


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Hello 2, good to hear from you again. Hope you are doing well,I will check on your sitch, stay well.


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Nice to hear from you lady. Went by my old place yesterday. It was a burned out shell, amazing to see that no one was hurt.
How are things with you? I have been reading a little of your sitch, sounds like you are in a decent place, thanks for stopping in.


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Hey Rick, how are things in South Jersey? Havent been able to get out running lately, the weather has been uncooperative. Still getting some workouts on the treadmill. Hope you are doing ok, talk to you soon,


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