Yes my holiday was good. Now I am still adjusting back to work environment.
Getting away from your H may be good for you. When he moved to Cairn, I think he was not thinking to hurt you, but more to find himself. He suffered depression. Now he is back. He wanted to show you his love by doing a lot of act of service. I hope "your taker" will ease a bit a encourage his good act of service. That will reinforce his will to continue doing it.
I am glad that you have control in your hand now. Use it wisely.