So now it turns out we have three options for selling the house. Short sale, on the market to break even or he takes over the entire mortgage. I told him I will absolutely refuse to short sale. I said I did not want this divorce and I refuse to let my credit be affected by his poor decisions any longer. So now if his financing goes through I have to sign off on the house and he takes over the payments. I asked how he intended to take on all this debt and still work fewer hours to take the kids 50/50 and he said he would just have to cut back. Well at least my kids won't lose their home. But I will. I feel like I am being left out in the cold again. It's been a very trying day. My head is spinning. Thing is there is no equity in the house for him to buy me out with.
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"