I am back from 1 month holiday. During my vacation, I re-read the book of "5 love languages". It is very refreshing.
In your sitch, maybe your H's love language is act of service. He is doing all the domestic stuff to show love to you. But your love language is different. So you don't feel loved by him. Maybe you need to analyse yourself what your H should do to make you feel loved, and tell him about it. And vice versa. It is just my 2 cents.