T~ No, you are not the only one who notices those things and goes all psychoanalytical about it (FYI- the toothbrush is back to the other side of the sink today! lol) Trust, patience, and control issues are hard to conquer, I find slowly is the best way to deal with these. We are all works in progress. There is no such thing as perfect people. smile

Jack_Three_Beans~ I am aware that none of those things mean he has gotten aboard the clue train.... but a smile is better than being glared at like the enemy. I always have hope, ever the optimist I suppose.... whatever will be will be, but I will continue to hope and pray for the best. smile

Also I am well aware of the 100 post thing, after this one I will start a new one, I've seen some up to 115 so I thought I was safe, but thank you just the same for the reminder. smile