Bustorama,I just want to add that what you said about s/he that cares less about the R will be pursued....I get that. But right now I actually feel like I just want to be left alone for awhile. I dont want to contact him or hear from him. I want to be left alone to 'catch up' and learn how to control my thoughts and emotions, especially about his R with OW (even though I know that is not the source of our problems). Is that normal?
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
