Ukva- It is hard to go dark with kids involved. How dark is dark? In my DB coaching session I was given advice which I am trying. I wanted to just cut it all off. But my goal is NOT to estrange my kids from their father. So this is going to be a challenge for now.
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home