He had offered on Tues. when I found out about their recent conversations that he would be willing to give back the company phone and give me the passwords to our cell phone company so that I could check when I needed to. Nothing has been done yet obviously so I asked if he would still be willing to do that, and he said he would, but that he couldn't do it until August as his job finishes in August and all of the Superintendents and people from other companies have his work #, but that he would do it then. To me it shouldn't be that difficult to give everyone your personal cell #, but whatever.
No, it's NOT that difficult. Either it (you feeling safe again in the marriage) is a #1 priority to him, or it's not. All YOU can do is say "Look, this is what I need from a husband. Whether or not YOU can provide that, is completely up to YOU" kind of a thing, kwim?
