Feeling very nervous, H is on his way home!! Had an interesting convo with H this afternoon......
H rang me to day about some very serious stuff. I don't know if you remember, but there was a girl, my h's high school gf, who contacted h earlier this year.....I believe that they had an emotional affair if not more. She lives in Brissy, where H moved to. She's an alcoholic and has many problems. Long story short, her mum rang h, shes also an alcoholic, and told him that if he didn't pay them money, then they would ring me and tell me all sorts of sh!t and generally make his life he!!. H had a falling out with this girl about 2 months ago, after she tried to steel stuff from his appartment and appartment building, he said that he hasn't spoken to her since then and he had only wanted to help her but she took advantage of him. I know that this girl is really messed up.......she really didn't help things here, and about the time they fell out i started getting hangup phone calls, which i'm pretty sure where her.
I told H not to pay them anything, because if he does, they will never leave him alone. If they being to hassle us, we'll have to take out AVO's and things like that.
I don't know how i feel about this, H could have done 'something' with her........but he has never been unfaithful and really do i believe him or a psyco alcoholic?
Anyway, i think i'm going to take one thing at a time and see if h does the things he says he will.
Must admit, i'm excited but also terrified! I worry that he may just stomp on me again....but then, there are always risks! Life is difficult!
