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. I am really struggling with the doing whats best for me and not whats best for W.


If this continues to be such a struggle and you are longing to hear from here and even pining for that moment then may I suggest a book for you? "Codependent No More". It's life changing and could help you break those unhealthy habits.

Trust me, I never considered myself codependent until I examined our R deeply and discovered, to my everlasting shock, that I really was!


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!