WHG: Looking for the shrinking cake

[UKVA]

I really LIKE that you LIKE your new found freedom. Sure, it is tough being away from our kids, I know that so well. But my WAW was a bitch to live with for the last few months, all sneering, rolled eyes and superior attitude. I don't miss that at all, really LIKE not having to deal with it. Since we have stopped MC, I LIKE not having the knife twisted in my gut every other week. You should not feel guilty.

Your worry on how to put it back together again, cross that bridge if and when you come to it. In my situation I can certainly see difficulties, but if my W decides to come back for the right reasons, we can overcome the raw spots and dance again.