Hi all,

Thankyou so much for the welcome. For some reason i'm feeling very down today, infact i feel like crying for the first time in about 2 months! I have had a very frustrating day, so that propably has a bit to do with that.

How to lovingly set boundaries?!? This has almost drove me to distraction over the past few days! The only thing that i know, is that H moving striaght back into the family home would be a major mistake and so I'm going to have to stay firm on this. I guess this is a boundary!

I'm going to check out those threads and see what i can get out of them.

Once again, thank you.

Lee