CV - I don't know if this answers the question but there are many things that I enjoy and would enjoy more if my W would enjoy it with me. Camping, museums, gardens, walks, holding hands, hugs, etc.

There was a period a few years ago when I first lost my job. W and I would go for morning walks and I loved it! Really did! Then it got too hot and humid to go for walks and we stopped. But when the weather cooled down, W refused to go for walks anymore and I grew resentful.

For the long term, I suppose there would need to be some sort of compromise. I do things she enjoys but I don't and she does the same. At least that is how I see things.


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