Bug you're right! I do feel like I learn by reading other's threads and other people's thoughts about what they are going through.
Grace - I wonder...does it mean we took them for granted previously?
I can remember when getting a TM from him meant nothing and it usually was "got milk." or "working late don't wait for me" or "my mother wants us to..." now I get excited whenever I get one usuallly with good reason last week he was sending me pictures and funny jokes.
Today I haven't actually thought about him or our sitch that much. I feel a lot more centered. I think I am detaching more.
I've decided when he comes over tomorrow I'm going to say I was just about to take the dog for a walk do you want to come? I feel like he comes over once a week and we just watch TV something he never wanted to do when we living together. Granted now we usually only watch our fave TV show....we wait and watch it together have done since he moved out. But I just think it would be good to get out of the house.
