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Re: Now the work begins.... lifejustgothard2 #2247066 05/21/12 02:15 PM
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Hopeful321 Member H Joined: Aug 2011 Posts: 477	I have only read a few of your posts here, but I am glad to see you are feeling better. My H and I are in piecing now and I have come to terms that if I really want this to work, I have let go of the past completely. I know it's hard and I do it one day at a time. My H still believes it's my fault. But if that is how he wants to justify his behavior, then so be it. But deep down in my heart, I know it was not completely my fault. Keep the lines of communication open between the two of you. Always use "I" statements. That helps. H: 49 W: 47 D: 6 M: 6 1/2 yrs H: Bomb #1 6-2010 H: Bomb #2 7-2011 H: Separated: 7-11-11 Reconciling 2-2012 Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)

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Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	02/10/12 10:11 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	Jack_Three_Beans	02/10/12 11:24 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	angel61	02/13/12 06:21 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	02/16/12 02:14 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	02/23/12 02:32 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	angel61	02/23/12 04:19 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	02/25/12 12:16 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	02/29/12 02:06 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	03/02/12 09:58 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	Cyrena	03/02/12 10:32 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	03/03/12 02:29 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	25yearsmlc	03/04/12 05:19 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	03/08/12 10:53 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	03/09/12 01:54 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	03/14/12 03:00 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	hopingandpraying	03/16/12 11:02 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	03/20/12 01:41 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	alone	03/21/12 11:04 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	03/27/12 01:27 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	MrBond	03/27/12 09:38 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	03/28/12 01:01 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	MrBond	03/28/12 08:16 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	angel61	03/29/12 12:09 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	04/01/12 09:30 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	04/03/12 02:05 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	scaredsilly	04/03/12 06:01 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	Cyrena	04/03/12 07:41 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	04/04/12 01:00 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	Cyrena	04/04/12 07:23 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	MrBond	04/04/12 07:38 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	04/05/12 01:31 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	04/26/12 02:29 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	~ kd ~	04/26/12 03:59 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	04/26/12 08:55 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	~ kd ~	04/26/12 09:05 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	05/20/12 05:59 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	Hopeful321	05/21/12 02:15 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	05/24/12 12:12 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	06/17/12 05:37 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	25yearsmlc	06/17/12 10:23 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	06/20/12 01:47 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	08/05/12 07:42 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	Denver_2010	08/22/12 05:30 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	Starsky309	08/22/12 05:53 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	Denver_2010	08/22/12 05:59 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	08/24/12 02:03 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	Denver_2010	08/24/12 07:44 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	09/25/12 12:15 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	MrBond	09/25/12 12:20 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	09/26/12 01:27 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	MrBond	09/26/12 07:27 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	Denver_2010	09/27/12 05:06 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	12/19/12 11:30 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	LITB	12/21/12 06:50 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	TSquared2	12/21/12 10:25 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	Denver_2010	12/23/12 02:01 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	02/21/13 04:54 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	25yearsmlc	02/21/13 05:04 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	25yearsmlc	02/21/13 05:04 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	25yearsmlc	02/21/13 05:07 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	02/28/13 04:26 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	03/01/13 03:31 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	03/04/13 08:41 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	TSquared2	03/04/13 09:26 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	AnotherStander	03/06/13 02:32 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	03/07/13 08:51 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	03/19/13 06:24 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	TSquared2	03/19/13 07:49 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	04/08/13 04:35 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	04/19/13 01:15 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	05/31/13 04:40 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	~ kd ~	06/20/13 04:04 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	09/13/13 12:22 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	09/15/13 01:32 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	AnotherStander	09/17/13 02:27 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	chasingpavements	09/23/13 06:52 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	25yearsmlc	03/03/12 04:08 AM

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