I took my rings off in the beginning because I was not going to be the one in our marriage who pathetically held on (pride). I even started wearing a pinky ring on that hand so people would not think I might be married and just didn't like wearing rings. I also liked it when I saw H noticing it. Finally, I decided I WANTED to wear my rings, not for anyone else, but for me. I love them as a piece of jewelry. They are the prettiest I've ever had and I love looking at them. They also let men know I'm not available ( not that anyone cares but you never know) for now. If H and I divorce, I'll probably get them sized for my right hand.
Or I may keep them on my left? Right now, they are just rings.


M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing