I am going to try my best and hardest to come to terms with the fact that he is not tied to me in any way. We are both individual people with lives separate from each other.
It's odd to me that I think/obsess/worry about him more now that I probably ever did while we were together or even dating.
Well, like they say, what you focus on expands That's why we need to focus on our GAL - to expand our own lives.