YC!
I haven't responded to one of your posts in a loooong time!
I'm so glad you are enjoying your new place. Good for you! I wanted to move out when all this began because I wanted to start fresh. Instead I painted and rearranged furniture.

Dinner with your parents...He really does have issues looking like the bad guy. Sounds like my H too (or three?).

This is why I think he won't come back. Too much guilt on my Hs part. He knows how bad he messed up and feels as though he should be punished. He actually told me that it's ok for me to let out my anger on him since he deserves it... ok...

Anyways, be careful with the sex. It doesn't help with detachment.

Take care!


M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017