Not sure where to start, Part 3

[wishing, hoping]

Snuggled with S and D tonight. S had a nightmare and wanted comforting. Felt nice because he is getting to the age where he doesn't snuggle much and wants to be brave. : )

H started back with the spew tonight. So a large branch off a tree falls in the front yard and he says (in a very snippy tone) so did you see the nice pile of crap I get to clean up in the front yard? At first I thought he meant dog doo but then I looked out the window and I saw the branch. Then he starts complaining how he has to mow the lawn and then says "AND I have to fill the pond again because I guess that is my responsibility!". Geez...angry much? I didn't even notice the pond needed water because I was too busy GAL! In the past I would get defensive and angry and feed the cycle. This time I said nothing. I actually started to giggle once he went outside. It was just so ridiculous. I just hopped in the car and headed to the grocery store. I avoided him for the rest of the evening. I made dinner for the kids and left food out for H and asked S if his dad was coming in so I knew if I should leave the food out. S said dad was coming. I looked outside and he was on the phone. I am sure with OW. He was probably looking for sympathy or complaining about me because I am sure it was my fault that the branch fell off the tree and that he had to mow the lawn. Boy I am glad I am not living in his head.