I'm moving home. We had a long discussion last night. We are both scared as hell
Just like that? You're moving back in? I'd be scared as hell too!
Do you have a plan other than "Honey, I'm home?"
Originally Posted By: netmaster
KD I'm scared to death. She doesnt' want to do MC and I sort of don't blame her brings up old wounds. My plan is to GAL, GAL, and GAL some more. actually taking off for a few days now b4 I move back in.
I'm going to keep my card schedule going etc..
In the absence of MC, what are you two going to do to get your marriage back on track? I don't mean to sound harsh, but it was not but a few short weeks ago that were the evil incarnate as far as your W was concerned. What is going to happen when that comes up again?
Have you considered maybe a joint session with a DB counselor? That maybe something worthwhile considering as an alternative to MC.
I wish you all the best, Net. Stay off the habitrail, keep your head on straight and your emotions in check.
Me51 W53 S17 S14 M22 T25 Bomb-9/11; A-11/11; I move out 11/11
It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.
Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife