I have no helpful words, just sympathy and compassion for you and your boys. I am so sorry about your mom. The M, the job, the pay, all that [censored], but try to connect with your mom as much as possible - you won't be sorry. The other things will resolve with time. With be thinking of you.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.