And by the way...my letter to her was more of a road map as how our R can be in the future, not so much to remind her of the past. The past I wrote of was my sincere apology of how I played a role in all this. she doesn't want to think of the past, only upsets her more and gives her more fuel that this is all my fault. This road map may serve me well if ever my W, or STBXW, realizes what she's done...and that we actually did have something special. This may cause her to pick up that phone just to see how I'm doing...and maybe meet up for a bite...or just a drink.
Me:44, W: 39 D:16, D:14, D:11(special needs) M:17, T:21+ Bomb:3/18/12 W contacted mediator for D:3/27/12 Separate since bomb Mediation, signed agreement 5/17/12 No talk of D since mediation