Needing some guidance... 3

[labug]

I know you're hurting and you're lonely and this situations su*ks and is truly unfair. But it will get better.

What is really concerning is you are so unhappy because you're not being validated by your H so you want another man to validate you. That problem has nothing to do with your marriage or your H, that is squarely yours. Please be aware of that and find help.

Have you read Codependent No more? If not it might be helpful to help you see your patterns. Getting this sorted out will make you a happier person and able to have healthy relationships.