NM, just be careful, OK? You both are likely operating out of fear in both directions...
Fear of splitting and being alone and all that entails...
And fear of getting back into the same ol', same ol' in staying together etc...
What ever you have picked up so far on YOUR part of the journey, please do not stop working on that...
give her space... BEFORE you know she needs it...
keep GALing... in a healthy way ...
keep fixing what ever needs to be fixed and become an even better man... not just one that your W would be a fool to leave... but one that you would be a fool to stop being...
one that lives a complete and fulfilled life... with someone... or worst case... with just yourself...
