What I'm trying (and I'm by no means perfect at it) is, when I feel angry, I try to ask myself, "what am I afraid of?"

I'm mostly afraid of abandonment and loss of love. That's not caused by my H. It's caused by my childhood and my parent's divorce when I was five.

It helps me.

M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing