Hi Kansha, this was very helpful to read. thanks.
How do i know if H is in a MLC or just feels he is really finished with this M?

Does it matter when we DB? Because the things on your list all sound like things we can/should do anyway.

Thanks and take care.

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home