Many people choose the family bed and it works for them. But like everything else in life, when it is no longer working, it's time to try something else.

But I don't think that is at the root of your problem.

I think Ad is right, stay put in the house, work on yourself and just let things be for now.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss