I know she must have noticed the pull back; I have gone from the long flowing e-mails full of superfluous tidbits to just the facts, Ma'am. While I know it is the right thing to do I wonder if she thinks it is my agreement that we need to get the big D? In her odd way of thinking right now I could see it.
That's the thing - we can't be worried about how the S takes our changed behavior. Only when they feel truly free would they be able to turn around and look at what they are leaving. Thus, even if you wonder that she thinks your actions constitute an agreement to D, that would not be a bad thing. Does that make sense?
