I'm glad you had time today to do something for you. Be sure to thank your h for what he did today. It was a big step for him to do everything that you asked of him. As for him figuring out that you are not the cause of all his problems, if he is in MLC, he's not figured it out yet. He's still got a ways to go to get to that point.

Enjoy the rest of your weekend.

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.