I really don't have any expectations at this point. It was just nice to have a little help today after almost six months of doing everything on my own. I was able to do my bike ride and I came home to happy kids and a clean and oiled car. My son pointed out that my H paid for the premium service which I thought was nice. The refi is for me so he wasn't taking care of the car with any expectations. However, he could be trying to be helpful due to guilt. It really doesn't matter. I just accepted the help and left it at that. I'm glad that I wasn't home when they came back. My son said that my H actually came in for a few minutes because he wanted to talk to me. I had left him the loan papers and the documents that he needed. Today felt like a day regular day from the past. I'm curious about what my H felt about stepping into his old life for a few hours. I won't ask. I'm just trying to create a non-hostile environment where he feels comfortable talking to me and coming in our house. I definitely noticed that my H doesn't seem happy. My kids have said the same. So, after six months on his own I would think he would have figured out that I wasn't the cause of all his problems.
