I have been going through so many posts... I understand about the 180s and GAL but if my H is going through MLC does that change things? Or do I just leave him be and drop the rope?

The last interaction I had with my H was an email from him saying that he asked OW for a ' relationship' . I responded with "thanks for telling me. Just keep it in juba ( the city he is currently working in) and not bring it home to where me and the kids are" .i haven't heard back for a week. plus I am not contacting gym either.

How do I know if he is in MLC ? Does it matter for DB ing? I mean do the techniques change?

I miss my family as a whole, i truly love the man I am married to, but am ready to do this alone. What does that mean?

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home