Well, I don't know if this is DBing or not, but when my H came to pick up S12 I asked him (as charming as I could) if he would take the SUV for an oil change and a good inside/out wash. I also asked him if he would pick up S15 from his volunteer job and take him to the golf course. He said yes to all of the above. So the kids are taken care of, my errands are being run and I'm free! I'm headed out for a 20 mile bike ride in the valley. Life is good!
