Oh Yeah! I forgot something... H said that he doesn't like to tell me negative things about our relationship because he doesn't like to hurt me. I said that I would rather he tell me things, even if it hurts my feelings, rather than hold them all in, which brought him to the point of not wanting to be married. He said, "Yes, but you see things so black and white that if I say something, you immediately jump to the conclusion that it is over between us." Hmmm...very interesting! The man who isn't sure he wants to be married is afraid of coming out with the deal-breaker to our marriage?????
Oh, and one more thing... Our MC remarked that we have a really good friendship base. (we joke around with eachother a lot and seem rather comfortable for 2 people sitting in a counseling office.) He looked pleased, and said, "yes, we are. More now so than ever."
Can I hear a big GO PAM?
Anyway, today I am going to work on my goals, and present them to you all later. And, I still owe an assignment to Betsey. It's just that I really should get my butt off to my job right now.... (I have flex time on Fridays.)
