Originally Posted By: figgeroni
remember...he can not control her

sounds to me like she is jealous b*tch and needed to remind BOTH of you that she was still there



get it

BOTH of you

a simple thanks with a smiley face in response to her next message might be good

try to keep in mind that she is going to go crazy trying to remind him that he "loves" her...

ler her be the crazy one
let her spiral around like a lunatic while you remain calm and confident where you are

do you see how unattractive she made herself
how small and petty
what a loser

don't fall into it
don't let her make you sweat it with him

because

YOU are the one he is living with
YOU are the one he gets to see everyday
YOU are the one who has a chance to be gracious and beautiful and loving toward him (when he is in an unloavable position)

be the bigger, better person (because you are)


Hi fig! Thanks for stopping by!

I, too, believe she did it to remind us BOTH that she is still on the side. I didn't respond to her directly, but maybe next time I will. Although H told me that he told her not to respond or post to anything else.

I know she is reaching for every morsel she can get right now. I do need to be the calm one. But I'm going to be honest here and say while I'm the one he's living with, and sees everyday, he still hasn't stopped his A, that I know of. It's getting harder and harder to be the bigger person. Just saying...


Me:37
H:GONE

Happy and loving life.