Having read this recent thread I would suggest you find someone else for the birthday gift. That is pretty excessive for someone who is treating you this way. The 180 would be to do NOTHING for his birthday, and I know from personal experience how easy it is to convince ourselves that giving gifts is the "right" thing to do, but I am guessing your DB coach would say otherwise. Also my WAW has found new friends (actually high school folks from 30 years ago) who don't know me or the kids, see one side of our situation, and so will validate her every move, feeling and tactic. Our mutual friends who know us both are probably wondering, like me, when this alien being is going to be returned to whatever planet, and the real person returned. That could be months away, if ever.
Any chance you can go dark on him again?
M 53, W 48 T 25, M 18 S 15, D 11 "I'me done!" 6/13/2010 Exit started 8/21/2011 ILYBNILWY W consults with L 9/2011, no papers filed Separated 1/16/2012
