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I thought I was doing the right thing by accomodating everybody else, but in the end, it just made my H think less of me.





Yes, Ellie. The sad part? My H has REPEATEDLY told me that he wants me to spend money on myself. Yet, I keep thinking that the RIGHT thing to do is constantly worry about squirreling money away for 3 college educations and whatever else these guys need. He has told me what he wants, yet I keep thinking that I know better....