I've read the book and often recommend it. I think everyone should read it!

Did your H ever read self-help books before?

If he sees you as a fixer, I think this would be seen as more of the same.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss