Originally Posted By: LIO
I was waivering between calling him every few days, or letting him contact me.


Which hurts you more?

Not hearing from him and not knowing what he is doing

Or

When you call him and the interaction doesn't meet your expectation?

I am not here to pee in your frosted flakes(forgive my colorful expression). Having said that, I am here to challenge you.

Because I have already been where you are.

Your peers are here to go through it with you and you will gain a lot strength from them.

Pay attention to your "ick" it will guide you to the right place. If you start lying to yourself you stumble.

Start believing those lies and you're lost.

Comes a day when the pain of not detaching is greater than the pain of the loss of your H.

That is the day you will take the step for YOU.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am