I have found that no matter how you word it, unless they are receptive to hear, any request is considered nagging. This is the hard part. Obviously you both want to make it work, but our words get in the way.
It's frustrating.
Maybe a gentle talk once he is home would help.
NO FISH EATING!!!!
Pattie
When you can't make a decision because you are torn between your heart and your head, listen to the half with the brain.