As for our relationship it's on the shelf. Even if by the grace of God we spend any time together it will be for fun and strictly enjoying each others company. I've realized that the answers I'm looking for don't exist. My marriage is over. The only thing we could possibly do is start over. So, like in the beginning of any new relationship talks about where this is headed are not appropriate. Does my outlook make sense or am I still setting myself up for a fall?
I'll honestly admit that I came here to simply say:
Please start a new thread. And I was trying to come up with a nice way, maybe a funny way of reminding people that 100 posts per thread is the limit. : )
And then I saw this, the above quote:
Bravo!
Your old marriage IS dead. No matter what you do with him, it will be a NEW Marriage. And thank God!
Good for you fo realizing this.
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am I still setting myself up for a fall?
Not if you are...wary...cautious, and careful. But do not be afraid to be hurt again either...it's a razors edge...but without the ability to be hurt? There is no love.
PS - make a new thread too.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
