Thanks Betsey. I am still pondering your thread. This is a lot of hard work, isn't it? But, Damn, Betsey, I have so much hope too! I feel like you guys help me cut through all of the stuff that just didn't matter. I foolishly thought THAT was the tough stuff! Ha! That was just the crusty stuff on top of the tough stuff!!! Someday my H will be ready to listen to all of this. But, for now, I will just respect his need for no R talks.
And now, I'm off to put on a sexy little number for a certain boy who is going to be pampered tonight....