Soooo, about an hour after her first call I saw her work number flashing on my phone again. And, like the first time, I did not pick up.
She left about a minute long message - initially letting me know that the baby had a runny nose and cold, asking if I had experienced any problems with him pooping, and so on.
Then she said "I'm kind of bummed out that we're back to square one again and not communicating. I'm hoping we can at least communicate about the baby". She sounded rather sad in tone.
I'm still not biting - I think I am going to hold my ground this weekend and not reach out unless it is a for SURE emergency.
I didn't put us here at square one again - I honestly think her inability at the moment to be civil did - not to be casting blame, but even though I have my role in ALL of this I really did my best to be open, available and communicative. I don't want to play games - but I think it is long overdue for her to feel the backlash of everything that is going on. I am not going to absorb any more of it for her.
Just found it interesting that she called TWICE this morning. In all honestly, I wouldn't even know what to say to her right now.
