or are you saying... "using the items I list as a way to show her things will not change back"...?
I mis-typed, I didn't mean show the list to her, meant to say use the things on my list and put them into action, and not change back. I didn't notice my wording when I first typed it.
Me:53 W:50 M:29 years T: 30 years Children: S21, D12