Quote: I think we need to figure out what happens or doesn't happen to start that insecurity feeding frenzy... something tells me it is something that can be "cured". So share when you're ready... and not a moment before.
This does deserve a lot of thought, so I will not make a quickie reply here. I am really going to think this through. I may even ask H for help.
By the way, he called again tonight! He said he had to hurry, because he was calling from his work phone. Plus, I could hear all kinds of guys in the background.
I understand the deeper meaning here... "Pam, I heard what you said about calling, and I am making it a priority."
Go me!
It was a short, yet funny conversation. The best thing? I could hear his friends talking about what we were saying. So, he was secure enough to call HIS WIFE in front of (among other people) a buddy from work. It does not escape my muddled thought process that he stayed with a different friend from work when he moved out, so.... I see this as a big positive! Does that make sense? I am happy because it feels to me like a big step in letting the people from work know that there's still something here. Ha! The glass is half full tonight, girls!!!
