Originally Posted By: Brit45
I plan to come by your place tomorrow I would think around noon to drop off these dining chairs and a shovel (I told him I would buy my own!)


HE wants to give you something... why are you resisting?

Originally Posted By: Brit45
I'll grab some things out of the garage (he still has stuff in there)


He's maintained a connection with you. Let's see if he takes everything... or leaves some stuff, still...

Originally Posted By: Brit45
Can't stay long as I have a very busy weekend (I don't want/need to hear/or care about YOUR busy weekend)


Sounds like he's DBing you, there... we know that can drive the WAS crazy by being... mysterious...

Is it working...?

Originally Posted By: Brit45
but I was thinking I might hang out with you guys one night next week? If you have the time, and want me too?
(ARGH right back to his pattern of....I don't know...but being a bit weird about maybe you don't want to hang out with me and I understand if I'm prying. Wanting reassurance. I don't know where this attitude is coming from. He did it on Wednesday and it upset me but I didn't let him see it and it's happening now)


That's a guy thing... we want to make "our people" happy... I personally do not want to hang out with someone if they want to hang out with someone else... I just want them to be happy...

of course... I would HOPE they would be happy to hang out with me... but I wouldn't presume that... that's THEIR choice...